Bf asked “what did you even do today?” after I made him this dinner. I took care of our two small children, went to the library, and went grocery and Xmas shopping for HIM.
Thursday, 13 Mar 2025
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Your boyfriend sucks.
I was a stay at home mom for ten years and my husband never once asked me this. You’re doing a lot. You’re putting in a lot of effort. You deserve to be treated like an equal who put in a full day of work.
Your man is trash, sorry you already had kids with him
I’m furious for you. You worked hard today. I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you. Little ones are hard work.
Damn, your ex really sucks
They’re his kids too, right?
HE NEEDS TO PARENT HIS CHILDREN. I’m sorry. I’m not yelling at you, okay? I’m yelling at *him*.
As a father of 2 young kids, I can say work IS a break.
ill eat his din-din
Who tf says no to holding their infant?
No no. No no n no no no no no no.
Personally, I would return the gifts bought for him. Then, when he asks why he didn’t get a gift, tell him since you didn’t do anything that day, you also didn’t buy him any gifts.
Kinda petty but imo he deserves it after a comment like that.
He sounds like a dick. I realize we are only getting a snippet of one side of the story. But that’s not a question you ask to someone you love
OP, oh please, girl what are you doing?
When love gives you lemons you must keep on moving.
Where yelling and hurt are the norm every day
When you cook and you clean and you still slave away
There’s but one thing to say, but one thing to do
Give him the bird and say, “eat shit and fuck you.”
Leave OP. From what I hear, it always gets worse.
Boyfriend, with two kids and being housewife? Sounds like he needs to step up. 🤷🏽♀️
The manly men who get home from work and can’t lend a hand are all boys. 50/50 once you’re home. I’m a landscaper in the summer and a shop foreman in the winter. I work long days with short breaks. She’s been doing the same. Mr. Clean is pretty manly, he don’t mind cleaning up.
Put him In the bin
Hopefully you’re smart enough to not make him your fiance/husband.
In a divorce custody arrangement, he gets the kids for set times… and you get a break. Maybe you should offer him this as an option.
What a dick.
youre not married, LEAVE.
Is this the same man you tried to get a restraining order against? Get out, now.
I dunno if it’ll help you.
But if I do things for people and they be a dick to me, I stop doing them.
He can make his own dinner.
I hope in your next post, he’s your ex-bf… girl you deserve so much better…
Do less
Related story: Years ago my neighbors were talking to us and the husband asked my wife, “What do you do all day long?” It was an innocent question from a person who had no kids and my wife tried nicely to explain that spending the day with two toddlers was a lot of work. He didn’t pursue it but it was clear he didn’t really accept it, either.
Fast forward about six years and we are talking to the same neighbors. My kids are in elementary school and they now have two little ones. The husband is talking about being exhausted from being home all day taking care of their two kids and going on about having no time to do all the stuff he needs to get done. My wife nods and listens, then asks this: “Do you remember that time you asked me what I did all day long?”
Pause…
Him: “OH MYGOD! I’m so sorry I EVER asked you that! Staying home and taking care of two kids is exhausting! I had no idea!”
We are still friends 25 years later and have four grown kids between us. 😁
I know my asparagus doesn’t look great. I think I left it in the oven too long with the Parmesan. Still tasted good though.
Don’t even engage. It’s seems hard, but once he has no-one to argue with, he’ll shut-up. Focus on you. No need to add arguing to a situation that you’re already exhausted from. Don’t ask him for sh*t because he obviously is going to make things harder for you by making you feel like shit. I’m serious. He’ll always rule over you if he thinks it affects you.
I think it’s time for a special pie
This is more than mildly infuriating…
You deserve better! Does he usually treat you like this? Do you say anything back?