AIO my coworker stole my edible
Wednesday, 12 Mar 2025
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dont fuck your coworkers
I think it’s funny that you’re banging him but still referred to him as just your coworker in the title lol
It’s an odd thing to do, but also some people are just VERY generous with their weed and edibles and are surrounded by people that are too. Idk that it’s worth ending it over if you guys vibe BUT if it’s just take and no give he might be a bum lol
Always been my code that you ask first
Definitely not cool to do, but he didn’t try to gaslight you and was honest about it. if it was a single edible I don’t think it’d be worth ruining a coworker relationship over.
Don’t fuck coworkers who are damn near 30 acting like this and you’re only 23
I have to be a dick here. If you boinking someone the expectation of whether or not they take your snacks (weedy or no) goes down markedly. Below please see two scenarios (assuming I was single, which I am not. Let’s just say for arguments sake ok?)
Scenario 1: friend at work lives close by. She invites me over to play virtual reality. It’s strictly platonic. I notice when she opens up her fridge she has my favorite beer. I do not touch beer without asking.
Scenario 2: friend at work lives close by. Invites me over for Netflix and chill. We boink. I notice she has my favorite beer. I can see a possibility of me taking the beer and drinking it without asking.
Please note… boinking someone from work is a terrible awful no good lousy idea.
Ever heard the phrase, “Never shit where you eat?” Stop sleeping with coworkers lol. It almost never works out. Plus can get very complicated down the line.
As far as the edible, all he had to do was ask. Not the biggest deal in the world but he shouldn’t be so comfortable just taking people stuff, weed or not. Ask for a Venmo request for the edible and move on.
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The fact that he waited until you took the dog out (instead of just asking), ate it quickly so you wouldn’t see, and then “forgot” to tell you means he was stealing and hoped you wouldn’t notice.
Now he’s refusing to take responsibility with “oh I can give you some weed (if you want)” and trying to lessen his actions with “lol”
NOR, he’s a huge red flag, I’d stop talking to him outside of the confines of work. Keep it cordial but no need to be nice or take it further with him.
I’ve read 4 people’s comments and they fucking suck. This man should not just TAKE your things and assume you’d be okay with it. You’re not overreacting. If you continue to see him, nothing will change. Dodge the bullet now. When someone shows you their true colors, believe them. Stop seeing him. He didn’t even clean up after himself either.
“i forgot to tell you” = i wouldn’t have said shit if you didn’t call me out…. fuck these kinda people
I would just be so dumbstruck. fucks you, steals your edibles and leaves. and then plays it off like it was normal. who does he think he is fr😭 not overreacting
Very strange. Common courtesy to ask someone if you can partake in their food, especially drugs. He also most likely intentionally didn’t say anything and hoped you wouldn’t notice.
The people saying some are generous with their weed is so wack. I always freely share my shit with folks who are over. I don’t care how much or how often they take. However I would immediately care if they stole a pocketful to take home while I was in the bathroom or something.
How do you people not understand the difference between sharing and theft? It’s so weird that he didn’t just ask you for one but specifically snuck it out while you were busy.
That would be a major red flag to me.
I think it is kinda funny to be okay sleeping with someone after two dates but getting mad they eat something 😂🤣 they should have asked but it’s just funny lol
i think if he’s comfortable enough to steal an edible on the second time hanging out, maybe in a few weeks he’ll be comfortable enough to take money lying around your place. it probably won’t even jump to that but it is weird behavior, he could’ve at least asked to have one but took the opportunity when you weren’t around
I think it’s a red flag. He just takes shit without asking. And then didn’t even tell you when you came back in. He didn’t cop to it until you asked.
That’s the classic nookie cookie. How you gonna give him nookie and expect him not to take the cookie? You know what I’m sayin?😂
He’s not that cool if he’s stealing your special treats like that. Careful with coworkers, if things go left, a boss or a workplace gets to know all about it 💀 Definitely reconsider that as a house guest
NOR. Im so surprised by all the comments that imply that having sex with someone gives them permission to take your stuff. I’m in a whole 4 year long relationship and I’d still have some feelings if I had some edibles and he got into them and wasn’t even going to TELL me. That stuffs expensive (where I’m from anyway). I’m going to share, and he knows I’m going to share, but it’s the principle. If I’m expecting 4 to be in there and there are 3, I might be disappointed. Just say something
A really cool guy won’t steal from you.
Hell, I’d even get pissed if it WAS a regular cookie too. That’s my food.. fine with sharing but your ass can ask. Hardly know someone. If you’re gonna take a cookie without asking who knows what else.. fr. People are shady af
It’s not odd behavior, it’s stealing.
I’m very serious about my edibles. If I ask you I you want some and you say no? Don’t expect me to ask again, or say yes if later you change your mind.
I flipped out on my brother one time cuz he tried to steal some from me after me asking if he wanted some multiple times. I flipped out, as a grown ass adult who can go get his own, I told him to fuck off and do exactly that. Im more than willing to share but don’t you fuckin steal from me. It’s a slippery slope and anyone who would rather just steal from you, I would keep eyes on cuz a thief will start out like this and slowly spiral until your starting to miss things and start going crazy looking (I’ve had a couple of ex gfs who would steal my shit and say they just wanted to wear it and slow it becoming more and more stuff like necklaces, jewelry, clothes, money from my wallet; finally stopped having ppl over to my place unless I really knew you).
Why’d you title it coworker ?
When I say “Make yourself at home” that doesn’t include drugs that aren’t on the table -_- That’s my boundary, he’s a shady character imo also he’s 30 and bumming drugs from a young adult, that’s just sad
I had a guy I was dating do this with my prescription painkillers. He didn’t want to deal with getting his own and I had some. Only those were for me. I let him use me and guilt me into giving him those pills twice. Luckily a friend stepped in before there was a third time. Otherwise I would’ve let this person use me forever.
I’d suggest creating clear boundaries now, or get used to this happening again and again. You have every right to say no and confront him for this. You are not wrong for being upset.
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NOR.
Hands off my stuff. I would not invite him over again for a long time.
Involved with the *new* guy at work. *2nd* time round to your house. We can fuck, but don’t touch my snacks lol
Still a dick move on his part though
That is really bold of him to help himself to ANYTHING of yours without asking. Not cool.
Buddy of mine always left a $20 bill on his coffee table. I thought it was odd. Every time. It was there. I finally asked him one day. He said, “I leave $20 there because it’s a cheap way of knowing who I can trust.”
You’re not overreacting at all OP! He took something without asking !! Let alone only the second time at your place ?? Nah I would just leave it at that and move on ..
Junkies stuff , as an alcoholic i would never have sip or drink at a mate without permission
1. Don’t fuck your coworkers, rookie move
2. Mans is pushing 30 and acting a fool with you, you might not see the pattern now but you’ll notice down the line lol
3. Use your big girl words and say “don’t do that” when someone takes something without asking
Anybody who said you shouldn’t be mad must also okay with crossing other people’s boundaries and theft, considering this is still stealing. You don’t take anything from someone’s house without asking. Drugs are also a liability issue even if it’s just weed. Not overreacting.
I’m perplexed by people defending his behavior. Can y’all not see he only admitted it because he felt like he got caught lol?
He’s 29 and you’re 23. That makes a lot of sense. Women his age know better than to ignore these minor signs that the guy is just a loser.
He didn’t forget to tell you. He wasn’t going to tell you. He stole from you. Plain and simple. You had a guy over who as soon as you left him alone went through your shit and took something without asking.
You’re young, but you need to start learning that just because people are fun doesn’t mean they’re worth the headache. The guy sounds like a loser.
>He’s a really cool guy…
He is NOT a really cool guy.
He banged you, then stole from you, while you responsibly let your dog out.
A cool guy would have banged you till orgasm, communicated his desire for a cookie by *asking you directly* not straight up being shifty and stealing it from you, AND he would have gone outside with you to let your dog out together.
He is almost 30 stealing weed cookies from someone much younger than him. He is NOT a cool guy. He is mediocre at best.
1) Do not hook up with him again.
2) Do not be surprised when he tells all your coworkers that you guys hooked up.
I don’t think he was being malicious. I think he thought it was a normal, non-offensive thing to do. People have different social norms. No way I could do that, although I would absolutely ask if I wanted some. And if I did do that for some reason, I would immediately tell you when you got back from outside. But I think it’s important to consider the fact that he most likely didn’t see anything wrong with it and therefore should be afforded some benefit of the doubt. I would just keep this incident in the back of your head and keep an eye open for other weird behavior. Maybe I’m just oblivious but I don’t think I would give this any more thought than just “that was weird”
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I see y’all’s point. And I agree. But only because I have to force myself outside of my head and think of sex in y’all’s viewpoint.
No he shouldn’t have taken the cookie. And I need a Time Machine to go back in to time when people didn’t think I was a delusional and dominated damsel for thinking sex and casual don’t belong in the same sentence.
You let him put his penis inside you but he can’t have a cookie (of any kind) after. Like cmon. My eyes can’t roll that far back. Smh. People please.
Let’s just take this one at a time
He can put his penis in my vagina.
He can be inside my home alone.
But he can’t have an edible.
You think he’s being weird. Bruh.
Smh girl. Maybe you should lay off the edibles and let some common sense come back
he should have asked but I don’t think its that big of a deal
Dude just stole something from you. I’d be mad.
I think it’s odd and don’t really like the idea of someone touching my stuff without asking but I mean he didn’t lie when you asked so I would just explain to him you would prefer if he would ask next time and leave it at that. I dont think it’s anything to write him off over.
Shiiiit.
I’ve known my best friend for nearly 25 years; close to 60% of my life.
We met my sophomore, his freshman year in high school and we lived in the same apartment complex after high school into our 20s, working together at the same jobs the whole time.
Then, just a few years after I moved 3 states away, he followed me down here. For the past 11 years we’ve lived within 35 minutes l from one another. We also worked together again for a couple year.
He’s literally the person that’s been in my life the longest, excluding family (especially if you work in how much more time him and I have spent together than I’ve spent with family).
All of that being said, I still would *never* grab his stash without asking, even though I know 100% he’d just tell me to go for it and grab what I want.
*****
You always ask.
Sleeping with coworkers is like 1 of the worst things you can do. Right below banging the boss. You create a scenario where if you start fighting with the coworker they can act however they want and it makes you look bad. And can lead to mutually assured distruction. And in todays economy where employers are going out of their way to not hire as many workers anymore to save money can you really afford to blunder your job like that? You need to have a set of rules for yourself on what you will and won’t do while working, it helps set up success. Having no sex with coworkers at the top of that list is literally 1 of the best things you can do.
Don’t shit where you bake
I mean for starters don’t shit where you eat, aka don’t fuck your coworkers.
Second you’re comfortable enough to let him have your cookie so is it any wonder he’s comfortable taking a cookie out of the cabinet. The only aspect that’s a bit off is he waited for you to ask before telling you he took one.
Why is a normal cookie different? Lmfao!?
Any decent person would wait for you to get back and ask if you want to do edibles together. This is super odd. I don’t like those vibes.