Am I overreacting after I found out my boyfriend’s online “friend group” I became part of 2 years ago has been JUST him the whole time?
Wednesday, 12 Mar 2025
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You’re not overreacting. That’s insane
yeah this is… not okay. i’m blown away that this is actually real because what?? how could someone do that to you, your partner of all people, and like was he ever planning on telling you or just letting it ride out? what does he gain from this? so many things running through my mind but the most disgusting factor is how he responded to it and it honestly sounds so manipulative and like he’s deflecting instead of owning up to his actions. i’m sorry that you’re going through this
this is some serial killer behavior
NOR. Ghost him and be thankful you didn’t procreate…..
He is trying to make you look crazy when he did something borderline sociopathic for 2 years, what the fuck
‘you need to learn about healthy relationship dynamics’ lol. Says the guy who’s also two other fake people.
For real though he is genuinely gaslighting you. When you say in your post you feel crazy that’s what he’s going for. He’d rather you feel that way – that, for him, would be better than taking responsibility for lying to you. Fuck him.
You need to run. That’s crazy
that’s literally inSANE behaviour girl, DO NOT LET HIM GASLIGHT YOU INTO BELIEVING OTHERWISE. he mentally fucking unwell.
I’m trying to think of all the problems. he gaslit and is actively gaslighting you. he catfished you. he generally manipulated you.
and now he’s going to spin. “it’s not a big deal”. and if it doesn’t work, he’ll pivot to “just a joke” or, I did it for you.
I would love to have a therapist weigh in on the tendencies and what they could mean. guy is unwell.
distance yourself and based on his access to bots, change passwords on everything.
go to accounts and check logged in devices. I’m not joking.
NOR. under reaction
screenshot the discord, and any other proof. you never know what he’ll try to claim happened. and maybe don’t go to Hawaii with him.
What a god damn creeper! And to make it out like you are a drama queen lol wtf.
Red flag city dump this emotionally stunted vegetable boi asap
NOR so creepy
NOR, that’s weird and creepy manipulation..
Girl, leave that man and know peace. Listen to/Watch the Sweet Bobby story and understand that this is not normal behaviour. Wishing you the best.
NOR that’s weird man. Like super weird. Also, he made you think that you were talking to other people and had become friends with them. So he lied to you and now you probably feel betrayed and uncomfortable. I think you may be under reacting honestly.
Am I understanding this correctly: You, your bf, and these “other friends” were all planning a trip together to Hawaii?
Like…what was the plan there? How could he possibly have explained that away???
To be honest this is pretty hard to believe. But if its a real story, and I were you, I’d be genuinely concerned for my safety. I don’t think I’d ever feel safe being alone with that person again.
this is actually insane. why would he do that??? wanted you to think he had friend when he didn’t and it got out of control? why wouldn’t he just be honest with you? and now the GASLIGHTING girl wtf
My brother years ago used my Facebook to pretend to be me and talk to this girl he liked and hoped to be with for a long time.. He would just talk for hours to her as “me” just talking himself up. Paragraphs upon paragraphs. This is not ok it’s sociopathic.
Jesus this reminds me of my ex. Would do the most INSANE shit and then be like “You know what your problem is?” 😂 I have to laugh or I’ll cry. So sorry this is happening to you.
NOR. He is completely insane and creepy. Sprint away and ghost
That is seriously so fucking creepy 😳 he probably made those accounts to try to get with you back when you were just friends, and then just contiuned with the lie after he won his prize. This is gross and unsettling.. I wouldn’t even wanna be anywhere near him after that 😳
Definitely could never go back to dating a person after this…unhinged.
Not only is this creepy, the fact that he tried to throw past trauma and overreacting at you, then downplay his role is gross. Run.
I wish women would expose men like this so other women can avoid them. Yikes
tell all your friends to protect yourself and ASK AROUND about him. freaky behavior
Are you sure you aren’t dating the guy from You?
This is seriously messed up. Get far far away from this psycho
Ermmmmm. NO. He is making it seem like you’re the crazy one?! He needs help
This is absolutely psychotic behavior. I’d never speak to him again.
Omg this sounds like the start of sweet bobby, the Netflix true crime doc. Girl run!
This feels like something the serial killer from You would pull
Dudes a serial killer get away and fast