“Am I overreacting?” I’ve been on a date with this guy twice. Nice guy behavior?
Wednesday, 12 Mar 2025
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You are not overreacting.
“I took care of you and made you feel welcome, and this is how you repay me” is the essence of a being a so-called nice guy. It’s transactional; he thinks you owe him for basic decency.
It’s whiny, it’s overly-attached, it’s manipulative – it’s a red flag bouquet.
“Felt in love” after 2 dates is a big fat red flag
This is downright scary
Just say “we’re not a good match” and then block him.
Bullet dodged….
what a psycho. this is unhinged behavior. block and move on.
This guy literally threw alllll the red flags that he had in your face at once 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
All I can say is yikes.
All I can say is “Run girl run!” Autistic or not I would be out. Sorry not sorry. But hey you do you!
Well, that escalated quickly.
You dodged a bullet with this one. He’s acting like you’re ending a 2 year relationship instead of two dates. I think he way over fantasized and is trying to manipulate the situation. He has a right to be bummed a little, but he went way beyond.
Nah he seems crazy but that thumb up had me hollering BIG time. Perfect reaction!
What…?
Girl call the police 😭😭
He’s crazy and you should run.
But I am curious as to what the context before this was. What are you going to let him know about? How what goes?
Any dude with an anime photo is ALWAYS a red flag for me( this is coming from a chic who loves gaming and anime lmfao) if they have anime as a photo it’s just kinda a red flag for future childish behavior like this.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying people who like anime are childish or anything like that whatsoever.
It’s just from personal experience…it’s always the ones who have such a love for it that they have ANIME as their personality “quirk” that give major ick.
Yeah but don’t you know you made the biggest mistake of your life? LOL. I hope you are somehow able to survive.
Did you go out with Ted Mosby ?
Are you guys under the age of 18?
He’s loopy.
Any guy that uses emoticons in a text message like that is a red flag.
Are they 14?
I’m autistic and have a tendency to get overwhelmed by positive emotions towards people who show me interest as well. But damn, you need to be aware of this and dial it down (for this guy all the notches). He needs to learn to cope with himself before dating I think.
Scary. Be careful!
No man that uses that many and those types of emojis is mentally stable.
“Biggest mistake of of your life” – bro is of an extremely high opinion of himself. All while using all those emojis. It’s a collection of red flags.
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