>!Very heartbreaking when you think about how she just made a movie about struggling to process the death of her partner at her age, especially a death that she couldnโt prevent!<
No one should have to be a widow at that age. My heart goes out to her and I hope she has a good support system to help her through this.
dannemora_dream
2 months ago
Thatโs absolutely horrible. Iโm her age and I canโt imagine being a widow. Also Iโm projecting but I grew up with a suicidal mother and it messed me up. Canโt imagine losing my husband by suicide.
My heart goes out to her.
DrDwightStrawberry
2 months ago
Jeff was the most brilliant, funny, weird, creative, passionate human. Even when we were kids, you knew that he was going to put his vision into the universe โ he was uncompromisingly himself and unique always, and I canโt fucking believe heโs gone.
KatAttack
2 months ago
Aw, geeze. These stories make me so sad. I was widowded at 31 and it fucking sucks donkey balls. I’ll keep thinking about how I know what she’s feeling like today, and then next week and then at the stupid fucking funeral. The shock and disbelief.
caffeinedreamz
2 months ago
Unfortunately, I know exactly what sheโs going through. I went through it 2.5 years ago at 28 and our son was 5. Nothing I could describe will capture the pain. I know sheโll never be the same again – Iโm not.
yikesus
2 months ago
You really never know what someone is going through. On paper it seemed like he lived such a perfect life. He had a successful career in the creative arts, had several critically acclaimed movies under his belt and is married to a beautiful and beloved actress. My condolenses to his family. RIP Jeff.
SafeBodybuilder7191
2 months ago
I know thereโs been speculation or rumours that theyโve split up for a while now but Iโve already seen people celebrating the fact sheโs single or upset she wonโt be at the golden globes and itโs so bizarre seeing how little empathy some people have
Oh my god how awful. My heart goes out to her and his loved ones.
proshe-27
2 months ago
Sending condolences to all. I know he worked frequently with Alison Brie and I think they had a big partnership, just want to mention her and send love. I think just noting him as someone’s husband takes away his personhood a bit. So, yeah love to all who knew him.
ProbablyNotADuck
2 months ago
I have experienced a lot of sudden/tragic losses in my life, but suicide hits in an entirely different way. It devastates on so many different levels. It is hard to explain to people who have not been through losing someone that way. It isnโt just losing the person, itโs that constant questioning of โmaybe if Iโd done something different, theyโd still be hereโ and then the heartbreak of thinking of what they must have been feeling and going through.ย
I hope people give her the space, respect and privacy she needs while figuring out how to process this. I hope she has the support and help she needs to work through the complex emotions this is going to bring up.ย
lkjhggfd1
2 months ago
Oh my god. Being a widow so young is devastating. My heart goes out to her and his family and friends.
forkicksforgood
2 months ago
Oh fuck.
I wish I had something nicer to say, but I am so sorry for what she and everyone else who loves him is going through right now. Suicide is never caused by anything but the most profound suffering usually after several years of trying to control illness.
It is a painful way to die and a painful wreck to leave behind. As someone who suffers from often severe mental illness and depression, I understand it more than Iโd like, and I am so sorry he felt that much pain. I am so sorry he left so much pain behind.
It’s sad that I feel like almost 24 hours before public reports started is a huge blessing. It should be the norm.
Vivid_Repeat5801
2 months ago
Oh gosh. This is just shocking.
shediedsad
2 months ago
How horrible. May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him and to Aubrey. Please reach out to 988 at any time if youโre struggling.
rullyrullyrull
2 months ago
As a fellow suicide widow, I donโt wish this on anyone.
copperrequired
2 months ago
I commented on another post how heartbreaking this is. Of course, not to make this about me, but I found this news really triggering. My partner suffers from suicidal thoughts. Heโs really trying to get through it as am I.
Thinking of Aubrey, truly awful news to read.
Iโm also thinking of those who also suffer from these thoughts/tendencies or know someone who does.
etrudiez
2 months ago
I just watched her video on Ellen talking about their wedding- it was cute and hilarious. was so heartwarming and you could feel their love for each other:/ devastating
Important-Stomach406
2 months ago
Horrible news. He was such a talented filmmaker
helloyesthisisasock
2 months ago
oh my fucking god, this hit me like a ton of bricks. she and I are almost the same age, and both weird Latina millennials, so I have always had an affinity for her. I was SO HAPPY she found her own brand of weird โ and this is a gut punch.
I recently separated from my husband because of his own struggles with mental illness. Please. Please. If anyone you know needs help, please stick by them and make sure they get the help they need.
My Old Ass Spoilers:
>!Very heartbreaking when you think about how she just made a movie about struggling to process the death of her partner at her age, especially a death that she couldnโt prevent!<
If you’re in the US and need someone to talk to, here are some warm lines that do not call the police.
I cannot imagine what she’s going through. They’ve been together since 2011.
Deepest condolences to her.
If you or someone you know is struggling, please don’t think you are alone. Resources: https://www.reddit.com/r/SuicideWatch/s/t9RNO4dYSq
No one should have to be a widow at that age. My heart goes out to her and I hope she has a good support system to help her through this.
Thatโs absolutely horrible. Iโm her age and I canโt imagine being a widow. Also Iโm projecting but I grew up with a suicidal mother and it messed me up. Canโt imagine losing my husband by suicide.
My heart goes out to her.
Jeff was the most brilliant, funny, weird, creative, passionate human. Even when we were kids, you knew that he was going to put his vision into the universe โ he was uncompromisingly himself and unique always, and I canโt fucking believe heโs gone.
Aw, geeze. These stories make me so sad. I was widowded at 31 and it fucking sucks donkey balls. I’ll keep thinking about how I know what she’s feeling like today, and then next week and then at the stupid fucking funeral. The shock and disbelief.
Unfortunately, I know exactly what sheโs going through. I went through it 2.5 years ago at 28 and our son was 5. Nothing I could describe will capture the pain. I know sheโll never be the same again – Iโm not.
You really never know what someone is going through. On paper it seemed like he lived such a perfect life. He had a successful career in the creative arts, had several critically acclaimed movies under his belt and is married to a beautiful and beloved actress. My condolenses to his family. RIP Jeff.
I know thereโs been speculation or rumours that theyโve split up for a while now but Iโve already seen people celebrating the fact sheโs single or upset she wonโt be at the golden globes and itโs so bizarre seeing how little empathy some people have
Current vandalism on his wikipedia page.
Oh my god how awful. My heart goes out to her and his loved ones.
Sending condolences to all. I know he worked frequently with Alison Brie and I think they had a big partnership, just want to mention her and send love. I think just noting him as someone’s husband takes away his personhood a bit. So, yeah love to all who knew him.
I have experienced a lot of sudden/tragic losses in my life, but suicide hits in an entirely different way. It devastates on so many different levels. It is hard to explain to people who have not been through losing someone that way. It isnโt just losing the person, itโs that constant questioning of โmaybe if Iโd done something different, theyโd still be hereโ and then the heartbreak of thinking of what they must have been feeling and going through.ย
I hope people give her the space, respect and privacy she needs while figuring out how to process this. I hope she has the support and help she needs to work through the complex emotions this is going to bring up.ย
Oh my god. Being a widow so young is devastating. My heart goes out to her and his family and friends.
Oh fuck.
I wish I had something nicer to say, but I am so sorry for what she and everyone else who loves him is going through right now. Suicide is never caused by anything but the most profound suffering usually after several years of trying to control illness.
It is a painful way to die and a painful wreck to leave behind. As someone who suffers from often severe mental illness and depression, I understand it more than Iโd like, and I am so sorry he felt that much pain. I am so sorry he left so much pain behind.
From Dylan Gelula. ๐ค
It’s sad that I feel like almost 24 hours before public reports started is a huge blessing. It should be the norm.
Oh gosh. This is just shocking.
How horrible. May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him and to Aubrey. Please reach out to 988 at any time if youโre struggling.
As a fellow suicide widow, I donโt wish this on anyone.
I commented on another post how heartbreaking this is. Of course, not to make this about me, but I found this news really triggering. My partner suffers from suicidal thoughts. Heโs really trying to get through it as am I.
Thinking of Aubrey, truly awful news to read.
Iโm also thinking of those who also suffer from these thoughts/tendencies or know someone who does.
I just watched her video on Ellen talking about their wedding- it was cute and hilarious. was so heartwarming and you could feel their love for each other:/ devastating
Horrible news. He was such a talented filmmaker
oh my fucking god, this hit me like a ton of bricks. she and I are almost the same age, and both weird Latina millennials, so I have always had an affinity for her. I was SO HAPPY she found her own brand of weird โ and this is a gut punch.
I recently separated from my husband because of his own struggles with mental illness. Please. Please. If anyone you know needs help, please stick by them and make sure they get the help they need.