Boyfriend hates my dogs
Wednesday, 12 Mar 2025
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Time for a new boyfriend
There are 4 billion men in the world and only two dogs that are yours.
Move on. He’s trying to flex and strip away some of your identity, it won’t stop with the dogs.
Next will come clothing choices, perfumes cosmetics friends family. Run away girl.
He renewed contact with you knowing you have dogs, and now he expects you to rehome them? This isn’t about your puppers, this is about control.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them!!!
First step at trying to control you. Massive red flag. Dump his ass.
Get rid of the boyfriend. Problem solved
Dogs > boyfriend
You should see no future with that human.
People that love you won’t put qualifications or prerequisites on their love.
I hate the mentality that they’re “just a dog”. Bitch, they’re MY dog.
‘get rid of your dogs that you’ve raised since puppyhood to be with my mediocre ass’, HAHAHAHA NOPE
Your dogs would NEVER put conditions on their love/relationship with you. Just saying…🤷🏽♀️
You should not continue talking to him. My fiance doesn’t like pets, but it was never a question in her mind to ask or tell me to get rid of my dog. And it never should be.
One of the things that I love best about my husband is that he falls head over heels with everything I bring home. Dogs, cats, rabbits….my axolotl. If your boyfriend can’t accept your family now, there will be more problems later. Cut him loose, wish him luck and hug your beautiful pibbles.
Dated a girl that did not like my dog. She had zero reason to not like her. She just didn’t like dogs period. I almost think it was a jealousy thing. She found it odd when i talked to my dog like she was a child.
I broke things off. My dog is not replaceable. I can find a new girlfriend though.
Yep. The girl I was dating didn’t like dogs. There was not a next date after this.
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Don’t you mean… ex boyfriend? 🤣😂
Ditch the boyfriend. It’s not for him to determine the future for your dogs. That he’s say that it’s essentially him or them out loud says plenty.
The dogs will be more loyal.
Tell him to do one.
I’ve through something similar. I told him not to let the door hit him in the ass on the way out.
Lose the bf, keep your dogs.
You are a package deal! Anyone that doesn’t welcome that, isn’t worth your time anyway! Those are some sweet babies!
I personally feel like you started seeing someone you were in a relationship with in this past, there is a reason it’s in the past. Nothing wrong with keeping something that brings you happiness (dogs) over a fling from the past. Relationships are all about compromise but there’s nothing about a compromise in this situation
Dump him
Lose the boyfriend. It’s one thing to not be fond of animals, but wanting you to get rid of them? That’s a red flag to me.
Thank you everyone!! Great comments and some are so funny. And all are true. Bye current and New boyfriend get ready for one lady and two dogs 🐶
Yea fuck that. Get a new boyfriend
If I’m dating someone and figure out they’re not down for my two dogs, I take that as a sign we’re not compatible and move on.
Would your future husband ask you to get rid of your dogs you’ve had basically their entire lives that love you? My husband wouldn’t.
Let him know that he can stay in your past then. Don’t let anyone give you an ultimatum, let alone a partner.
If you can’t accept a person and their animals, knowing they have, time to go somewhere else.
Other people have said but sometimes can’t be said enough. Keep the dogs, ditch the boyfriend. If he was loyal to YOU, he would try to make it happen with the dogs.
I hope you find someone who will love you AND them!
If you don’t like my dogs, you don’t like me. Nothing to discuss.
Get a new boyfriend. My dogs loved my previous ex initially until he turned out to be an abusive piece of shit. Not saying this guy would be abusive but in no way would I keep someone around who blatantly doesn’t like my dogs.
He came into the relationship knowing about your dogs. I don’t think this would be the last change he tried to force on you. Nobody who deeply cared for them would make this demand of a dog owner. It sounds like you two just started dating. I would probably move on, as you indicated.
Ex*
He’s gotta go
Tis the season for a new boyfriend