A lot of us are ashamed to tell our moms that we love her when she’s alive, maybe because of pride, but we shouldn’t
Moms are just like us, learning everyday, and they just want to be loved too
this made me wanna cry to be honest, I’m not crying … you are ❤️❤️
Zaitlech
3 days ago
I have seen this post many a times before.
When my grandma suffered a stroke and her life expectancy went from years to days, I did actually remember this and told her what a great grandma she really was just in case she could hear me.
I always knew how terrifying a stroke was but that still gave perspective. She looked unrecognizable in that hospital bed
Therashser
3 days ago
My Mum slipped into a coma before dying a week later in December 2007, I felt like I didn’t get to say goodbye, but this gives me hope that she heard my goodbyes.
armypilot88
3 days ago
Dang dude. You got me chopping onions over here. May she rest in peace.
gwilfredc
3 days ago
She heard you.
SirCharlito44
3 days ago
My wife just woke up and asked me why I am crying so I showed her this and now we both have tears in our eyes.
NormalSubject5974
3 days ago
Always a good reminder to tell the ones you love that you love them while you can.
Rampage_CRH
3 days ago
LOVE YOU, MOM.
oldgrandma65
3 days ago
She will always be just over your shoulder dear.
Ravenrose3
3 days ago
Hearing is generally the last sense to go when we die. It is so lovely that you did that for her.
BlueJay006
3 days ago
My uncle was in a coma, on his deathbed his internal organs were all black, full necrosis, my cousin, his daughter told that she forgave him and it’s okay to go, he flat lined not even 10 seconds later, he was holding on just to hear her say it was okay to go
Aggravating_Tax_4670
3 days ago
Even many people who experience near death experiences recall conversations, not only in the room, but their loved ones in different areas of the building. We just never know. – You really did the right thing.
SerendipityQueen
3 days ago
My mom had a stroke and went into a deep sleep before she passed(as her brain continued to herniate and swell, there was nothing we could do). I talked to her and told her everything I could, how I know she did 10xs better for me as a parent than she ever had, and all of the things I could think of to tell her how much I loved her and was glad she was MY mom. I started playing music for her, I found the perfect rock playlist and, on day 2, the song “Freebird” came on and she started to pass as the tempo sped up and the words “I can’t change” and “fly high Freebird” came on. I firmly believe she chose to go in that moment, idk how but I swear, she was there….
I miss and love you Mom, you were my best friend Always and forever. 05/21/70-07/16/2022 ❤️🩹
lacticacid4breakfast
3 days ago
Mine was 3 days and I don’t recall really coming out of it and for a while I was paralyzed. But in retrospect it was just almost a week that just doesn’t exist except from others perspectives.
AelishMcGuire
3 days ago
❤️
Low-Wrongdoer613
3 days ago
You made up for all your regrets (I know she had none) by doing what you did…… bravo
Sir-Spoofy
3 days ago
No I’m not crying! I just have something in my eyes!
CheezeLoueez08
3 days ago
I’m actually crying. From some of the comments here too. I needed this.
Mucho_Cuy
3 days ago
damn bro…think I’m going to call my mom right now and tell her I love her. I don’t care if I wake her up.
AmNoSuperSand52
3 days ago
> I hope she heard me. I wasn’t always a good son.
Fuck. That part got me
mn_catmom
3 days ago
Hi I’m a RN, they’ve done studies where people who have passed & been revived are able to recall things said while they were gone. Hearing is the last thing to go. She definitely heard you ❤️
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RonMidnight
3 days ago
I’d say you got the last on right!,
FlippyChica
3 days ago
❤️
SeattleHasDied
3 days ago
She certainly did; so did my dad❤️
esairbear
3 days ago
I had to do the same thing for my girlfriend this year. Spent all night talking to her and holding her hand until it was time for her to go. Hopefully it brought her peace
Byte_Fantail
3 days ago
I remember reading about a guy who had been under so long he remembers his mom saying she hoped he’d pass away soon because she couldn’t afford to keep him there much longer or handle the stress. Then he DID come back and never told her he heard it.
More like r/mademecry
I am sure she heard you.
A lot of us are ashamed to tell our moms that we love her when she’s alive, maybe because of pride, but we shouldn’t
Moms are just like us, learning everyday, and they just want to be loved too
this made me wanna cry to be honest, I’m not crying … you are ❤️❤️
I have seen this post many a times before.
When my grandma suffered a stroke and her life expectancy went from years to days, I did actually remember this and told her what a great grandma she really was just in case she could hear me.
I always knew how terrifying a stroke was but that still gave perspective. She looked unrecognizable in that hospital bed
My Mum slipped into a coma before dying a week later in December 2007, I felt like I didn’t get to say goodbye, but this gives me hope that she heard my goodbyes.
Dang dude. You got me chopping onions over here. May she rest in peace.
She heard you.
My wife just woke up and asked me why I am crying so I showed her this and now we both have tears in our eyes.
Always a good reminder to tell the ones you love that you love them while you can.
LOVE YOU, MOM.
She will always be just over your shoulder dear.
Hearing is generally the last sense to go when we die. It is so lovely that you did that for her.
My uncle was in a coma, on his deathbed his internal organs were all black, full necrosis, my cousin, his daughter told that she forgave him and it’s okay to go, he flat lined not even 10 seconds later, he was holding on just to hear her say it was okay to go
Even many people who experience near death experiences recall conversations, not only in the room, but their loved ones in different areas of the building. We just never know. – You really did the right thing.
My mom had a stroke and went into a deep sleep before she passed(as her brain continued to herniate and swell, there was nothing we could do). I talked to her and told her everything I could, how I know she did 10xs better for me as a parent than she ever had, and all of the things I could think of to tell her how much I loved her and was glad she was MY mom. I started playing music for her, I found the perfect rock playlist and, on day 2, the song “Freebird” came on and she started to pass as the tempo sped up and the words “I can’t change” and “fly high Freebird” came on. I firmly believe she chose to go in that moment, idk how but I swear, she was there….
I miss and love you Mom, you were my best friend Always and forever. 05/21/70-07/16/2022 ❤️🩹
Mine was 3 days and I don’t recall really coming out of it and for a while I was paralyzed. But in retrospect it was just almost a week that just doesn’t exist except from others perspectives.
❤️
You made up for all your regrets (I know she had none) by doing what you did…… bravo
No I’m not crying! I just have something in my eyes!
I’m actually crying. From some of the comments here too. I needed this.
damn bro…think I’m going to call my mom right now and tell her I love her. I don’t care if I wake her up.
> I hope she heard me. I wasn’t always a good son.
Fuck. That part got me
Hi I’m a RN, they’ve done studies where people who have passed & been revived are able to recall things said while they were gone. Hearing is the last thing to go. She definitely heard you ❤️
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I’d say you got the last on right!,
❤️
She certainly did; so did my dad❤️
I had to do the same thing for my girlfriend this year. Spent all night talking to her and holding her hand until it was time for her to go. Hopefully it brought her peace
I remember reading about a guy who had been under so long he remembers his mom saying she hoped he’d pass away soon because she couldn’t afford to keep him there much longer or handle the stress. Then he DID come back and never told her he heard it.
Aww man