Meirl

Avoided divorce , teen pregnancy, pregnancy, first relationship, first kiss, first marriage 🤙🏻

Can’t get a divorce if you never have a relationship

*I say through the tears*

Congrats! I am proud of you.

I got married at age 29…divorced aged 42 (she moved in with her new boyfriend).

I got married for the first time at 36 and had this exact same thought. Also had the thought of “yeah I’m not doing this again” and my wife had the same sentiment.

not a matter of being positive – its a matter of being realistic with current self-centred attitude of men and women and how toxic dating culture is in 2024

too many double-standards on one side of the spectrum thats also preaching for equality

too many men/women becoming involuntary celibate AND voluntarily celibate because hook-up culture isn’t worth it

and in this economy, its too damn expensive to risk getting married, buying a house and starting a family….and then filing for divorce

logically, it makes sense to be single *until* you find your perfect person

My partner feels like she missed out on life because she was a late bloomer with everything in life, including relationships. We met when she was 32, but I told her from personal experience, she dodged a bullet by not marrying her first love.

I have been divorced twice by age 36. I was stupid and married my teenage love about 4 years into dating, then she dumped me shortly before we were hitting 30. I married my first serious relationship afterwards about a year and a half later. I was over invested in her and she ended it at 5 years.

My current partner and I met and developed organically. We aren’t in a rush to do anything other than get ahead in this difficult climate, especially in a high COL area, and ensure that we help each other out to make our lives better. I don’t see myself without this woman, but we aren’t in any rush to get married or anything.

“I don’t want to cause a marriage because I don’t want to cause a divorce” Mac Leathal, calm down baby.

Still single at 42 I might have dodged 3 already

And still single cause you’re scared.

Wo0t! 36, never married. Been with current gf for almost a year, no plans of marriage 🤣

This man has watched 40year old virgin too many times

However peaceful your life is now, if your partner either matches it or makes it more peaceful, she’s worth it.

Any less peaceful, move on and don’t look back.