Not wanting to be friends with someone who’s values are completely at odds of your own is pretty reasonable.
Salarian_American
1 month ago
The fact you get cut out of women’s lives isn’t simply that you oppose abortion, it’s also that you think opposing abortion is “just politics.”
“Why can’t we be friends even though we disagree on politics?”
“Because your ‘politics’ insist that I don’t deserve equal protection under the law.”
fancy-kitten
1 month ago
Well, if women find your views repugnant, then you have to decide what’s more important to you. Having repugnant views, or getting a girlfriend.
WistfulWanderings
1 month ago
It’s always “politics,” never “things that actually affect people’s lives.”
dneste
1 month ago
“As soon as I tell women I want the government or myself to have control over their bodies, they just stop talking to me. I don’t understand!”
DatDamGermanGuy
1 month ago
Translation: women don’t want to date Incels
No-Coast-1050
1 month ago
‘Just politics’ is a strange phrase sometimes used to make topics seem more abstract than they are.
He states it like it’s his stance on traffic violations and not a massive impact on people’s lives.
*”I think women shouldn’t be allowed to vote, drive, or work, and I don’t understand why my wife is upset by that, it’s just politics.*
DarthButtz
1 month ago
>it’s just politics
>against basic human rights
Every time.
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1 month ago
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GryphonOsiris
1 month ago
Taking it a step further, you have boys in adult male bodies who were taught that that are obligated to have a woman, and that any woman that refuses their advances is in the wrong, and to blame for all their problems.
ChibiSailorMercury
1 month ago
“If the girl finds out I’m against her having access to the full range of healthcare available to women or that I hate people from outside my country, she’s making the political decision to not suck my dick and that’s why we have a male loneliness epidemic. Women making male sexual pleasure about the well being of people who are not cis straight white dudes.”
Ok_Airline_9031
1 month ago
A lot of men in my generation dont want a ‘girlfriend’, they want a mom-replacement who will keep their place and do the laundry, then go home to her own place (unless he wants sex). Many women of my gen figured out we dont need the sex, and we already have the rest of it all in our own place.
carlitobrigantehf
1 month ago
People who say “just politics” like politics don’t have real world implications on people’s lives….
glitchycat39
1 month ago
Yeah, note how he didn’t even say “illegal immigration” – dude wants an ethnostate and wonders why he can’t find a partner.
hyren82
1 month ago
“If a man finds out I want to make all men into eunuchs, he just cuts me out of his life! I mean, wtf its just politics!”
Milam1996
1 month ago
My favourite dating strategy is to figure out a way to bring up Ben Shapiro or Jordan Peterson and if his ears twitch like saying walkies to a dog then I go no contact and block. I refuse to date people who worship people who think I don’t have a right to freedom.
Otherwise-Pain-6366
1 month ago
Well, since it seems that many young men have decided to support Maga… It’s really no surprise that a woman is not going to want anything to do with you. Like Matt Gaetz….
DragonQueen777666
1 month ago
I’ll be more blunt and say it as “they don’t really see us as individual people and they’ve been in their echo chambers on the internet for too long”. They can’t possibly fathom the idea of a woman, a *female* being as smart (or God forbid, smarter) than them, they can’t fathom a girl having interests or personality beyond what attention they get from men and they can’t fathom the idea of a woman being their equal. Is it rooted in misogyny? Yep. Is it the kind of thing that’s just been dressed up differently so that they don’t get called out on it as quickly? Also, yes.
And they’re so oblivious to how insufferable it makes them that they don’t realize how many red flags they send off just by having a short conversation with a woman. Great example, I’ve learned that any man who refers to women as “females” is usually a walking red flag and worth steering clear of.
Of course, there are plenty of good and great men who are also out here rolling their eyes at these dudes. The main issue is that these dudes are so wrapped up in the “wah, I’m lonely” mentality and the incel mindsets that they never even question that maybe they’re the problem.
SisterCharityAlt
1 month ago
I mean, a recent research study seems to be showing that to be actually true.
Women are becoming much more liberal and men are responding by becoming bigger assholes about it and then wondering why nobody wants them.
peacefulsolider
1 month ago
brother thast part of the ”dont like women” section
HairySideBottom2
1 month ago
Kender should just stick to dating women in his church. He could probably find a nice trad wife girl who will buy into his bigotry.
t0matit0
1 month ago
lol get fucked, Kender. Or I guess don’t.
SerenXanthe
1 month ago
Does anyone else think his full handle is Kender Gritical? Like that’s his whole personality anyway?
YarItsDrivinMeNuts
1 month ago

Equinsu-0cha
1 month ago
This is the most accurate description of the incel thing ive ever seen.
BatUnlikely4347
1 month ago
Heard on the Hysteria podcast:
Men have not caught up with how to be Wanted now that they aren’t necessarily Needed.
joeb690
1 month ago
These guys seem 1000% single
dolosloki01
1 month ago
This mindset pretends that all women are liberal. If we have learned anything over the last few years, it’s that there is a pretty substantial block of conservative women.
It’s tiresome how young folks take the minimal number of people they’ve interacted with and then extrapolate that small sampling out to mean that is how everyone is.
Not wanting to be friends with someone who’s values are completely at odds of your own is pretty reasonable.
The fact you get cut out of women’s lives isn’t simply that you oppose abortion, it’s also that you think opposing abortion is “just politics.”
“Why can’t we be friends even though we disagree on politics?”
“Because your ‘politics’ insist that I don’t deserve equal protection under the law.”
Well, if women find your views repugnant, then you have to decide what’s more important to you. Having repugnant views, or getting a girlfriend.
It’s always “politics,” never “things that actually affect people’s lives.”
“As soon as I tell women I want the government or myself to have control over their bodies, they just stop talking to me. I don’t understand!”
Translation: women don’t want to date Incels
‘Just politics’ is a strange phrase sometimes used to make topics seem more abstract than they are.
He states it like it’s his stance on traffic violations and not a massive impact on people’s lives.
*”I think women shouldn’t be allowed to vote, drive, or work, and I don’t understand why my wife is upset by that, it’s just politics.*
>it’s just politics
>against basic human rights
Every time.
[deleted]
Taking it a step further, you have boys in adult male bodies who were taught that that are obligated to have a woman, and that any woman that refuses their advances is in the wrong, and to blame for all their problems.
“If the girl finds out I’m against her having access to the full range of healthcare available to women or that I hate people from outside my country, she’s making the political decision to not suck my dick and that’s why we have a male loneliness epidemic. Women making male sexual pleasure about the well being of people who are not cis straight white dudes.”
A lot of men in my generation dont want a ‘girlfriend’, they want a mom-replacement who will keep their place and do the laundry, then go home to her own place (unless he wants sex). Many women of my gen figured out we dont need the sex, and we already have the rest of it all in our own place.
People who say “just politics” like politics don’t have real world implications on people’s lives….
Yeah, note how he didn’t even say “illegal immigration” – dude wants an ethnostate and wonders why he can’t find a partner.
“If a man finds out I want to make all men into eunuchs, he just cuts me out of his life! I mean, wtf its just politics!”
My favourite dating strategy is to figure out a way to bring up Ben Shapiro or Jordan Peterson and if his ears twitch like saying walkies to a dog then I go no contact and block. I refuse to date people who worship people who think I don’t have a right to freedom.
Well, since it seems that many young men have decided to support Maga… It’s really no surprise that a woman is not going to want anything to do with you. Like Matt Gaetz….
I’ll be more blunt and say it as “they don’t really see us as individual people and they’ve been in their echo chambers on the internet for too long”. They can’t possibly fathom the idea of a woman, a *female* being as smart (or God forbid, smarter) than them, they can’t fathom a girl having interests or personality beyond what attention they get from men and they can’t fathom the idea of a woman being their equal. Is it rooted in misogyny? Yep. Is it the kind of thing that’s just been dressed up differently so that they don’t get called out on it as quickly? Also, yes.
And they’re so oblivious to how insufferable it makes them that they don’t realize how many red flags they send off just by having a short conversation with a woman. Great example, I’ve learned that any man who refers to women as “females” is usually a walking red flag and worth steering clear of.
Of course, there are plenty of good and great men who are also out here rolling their eyes at these dudes. The main issue is that these dudes are so wrapped up in the “wah, I’m lonely” mentality and the incel mindsets that they never even question that maybe they’re the problem.
I mean, a recent research study seems to be showing that to be actually true.
Women are becoming much more liberal and men are responding by becoming bigger assholes about it and then wondering why nobody wants them.
brother thast part of the ”dont like women” section
Kender should just stick to dating women in his church. He could probably find a nice trad wife girl who will buy into his bigotry.
lol get fucked, Kender. Or I guess don’t.
Does anyone else think his full handle is Kender Gritical? Like that’s his whole personality anyway?

This is the most accurate description of the incel thing ive ever seen.
Heard on the Hysteria podcast:
Men have not caught up with how to be Wanted now that they aren’t necessarily Needed.
These guys seem 1000% single
This mindset pretends that all women are liberal. If we have learned anything over the last few years, it’s that there is a pretty substantial block of conservative women.
It’s tiresome how young folks take the minimal number of people they’ve interacted with and then extrapolate that small sampling out to mean that is how everyone is.
This Finnegan guy has some good takes